Updated: Mar 28
Can hypnosis really help you create the relationship of your dreams? It actually can, by removing unconscious beliefs that keep you stuck in bad relationships, or unwilling to enter into one at all because of fear of getting hurt. We can spend a lot of our life focused on what happened in the past and then projecting that into the future. This can keep us from experiencing all that life has to offer. It can also keep us from making ourselves emotionally available enough to experience true love.
With hypnosis we can do several things to help with our ability to love. At the simplest level we can create the vision for the type of relationship you seek. We can associate feelings, sounds, and visualizations that reflect what that perfect relationship looks like to you. Then your subconscious is wired to assist you in attracting the right people into your life that are a match for that energy. You can also go even deeper and explore what is keeping you stuck, and unable to have the successful relationship you seek. Is it a hurt from a recent relationship, or does it go even deeper to your childhood? Each person’s journey is unique, but hypnosis can help anyone who is interested in clearing out the past so they can begin to live in the present moment.
As a reminder the subconscious mind does not translate the negative things we say, and it also does not differentiate between what we say about other people and what we say about ourselves. It is simply always listening, and always processing whatever it is experiencing as if it is real. This is why we jump at scary movies, or even a scary book, the experience is real to your subconscious mind. And it remembers everything. It is a super computer of memories, experiences, thoughts, and the things we say, especially the things we say with a lot of emotion behind them.
This is why when we say I am never getting in a relationship again, we instead keep having the same kind of partners who make us feel like we never want to be in a relationship again. We are vibrating and then attracting in exactly what we don’t want, because we are not paying close enough attention to the thoughts we think, and the words we say. This is why hypnosis can be so helpful, you can clear out those negative thoughts and words, and replace them with what you actually want instead.
With the energy of the sign of Libra, we are working with the energy that helps us keep our relationships fair and balanced. Libra is moving away from being the single-minded Aries, to the relationship minded Libra. The sign of Libra is one of the 3 Air signs. All air signs work with the energy of connecting with others. With Libra this connection is a more one to one, as in love relationships and business partnerships. We have already covered the other air signs of Gemini and Aquarius, so this concludes that series. When you think of the Air, it is not solid, it is not something you can visualize, but you cannot survive with no air. Without the ability to communicate with one another we also cannot survive. Air and the airwaves keep us connected through speech, through brainwaves that help us think. We communicate in many ways, written speech, sign language, and of course with our actual voices. The Air signs are highly motivated to manifest what they want by creating and communicating their plans for working together. The Air signs are focused on sharing information while connecting with others. They can often be found in some sort of counseling, mediator, peacemakers or even some sort of diplomat. Speaking their mind is important, but Libra won’t do so if it means they may push away the people they want to stay connected to. Instead they are looking to create mutual understanding and a way to easily meet in the middle. Libra is a Cardinal sign, which means it is likely to be the one taking action. This is considered male or what we call Yang energy. It is at the beginning of the change of the seasons, like all Cardinal signs are. Libra season signals the end of Summer and the beginning of Fall.
Libra’s who spend too much time on their own, may feel dissatisfied. They are truly at one with their energy when they work or are in relationships with others. Being too independent is a sign that a Libra may be ignoring their path. The Air element makes this one of the more analytical signs, which makes them shrewd and critical thinkers. They can be much more logical than emotional, which can cause those around them to be disenchanted by their abruptness. They will know all the details, and facts, about everything. They especially enjoy the fields of law or the military. Of course, if they lean more into their Venus energy, the planetary ruler, they may be more into beauty and fashion. This would be a sign that would write out new moon wishes and then speak them out loud into existence.
Libra is the 7th house of the zodiac. We have established our work life and daily routines in the 6th house, now we are ready to share those with others in the 7th. The 7th house represents our marriage partners, and our business partners. The ruler of this house in your natal chart often indicates the personality traits of your marriage partner. It is often when we are having transits to our 7th house or its ruler that we experience major milestones in our relationships. When we tap into this energy with the help of hypnosis we can attract the perfect partner for us.
The scales of Justice represent the sign of Libra in the Zodiac. In Greek mythology the Goddess of Justice is Thema. She is usually shown wearing a blindfold and holding the scales of justice, much like the traditional tarot card also called Justice. She is the mother of Astraea, which rules over our health, which was discussed in last month’s Virgo article. Physically the sign is medium to tall and will tend to have balanced features. They may carry themselves with an air about them that exudes class and finesse, usually a sharp dresser.
The planet Venus is the ruler of the sign of Libra and the 7th house. Venus also rules over the sign of Taurus. While in Libra Venus focuses on love, love, love. Which is why this sign is aligned with our marriage partners. Venus was quite the lover in the zodiac and regularly went after what and who she wanted, Mars was her most notorious lover, even though they both had spouses. Venus the goddess of love and beauty is about enjoying the good things in life and having someone to enjoy those things with. Libras as a result are often really attracted to having beautiful things, like clothes and homes, and partners.
Let’s tap in together to the energy of the sign of Libra now and learn how to use our mind to connect with our perfect partner. The following is an audio file you can listen to multiple times, but even just once can have a major positive impact on your life. You should listen without distraction, in a quiet place, with your phone on silent. This helps reduce the distractions from the conscious mind and allows you to more easily connect to the subconscious mind. Access the session here.
For additional work with the signs and hypnosis you can take part in one of my coaching packages where we work with the current energy to help you achieve your personal goals. For more on this please visit my website www.maraleeburnett.com